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A reading list on its own is a way of postponing the work. So every book, talk, course and exercise here sits under the session it belongs to, and you meet it at the point where it is useful. Choose a session below and you will find what other people found worth their time.
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- Find your superpowerWhat am I unusually good at, and what is the evidence?2
- Find your purposeWhat would I keep doing anyway?1
- Build your storyWhat is the thread through chapters that look unrelated?1
- What do you want to be known for?What box am I in, and what can I claim?1
- What do you actually want?What do I say I want versus how I live?1
- What should I actually do?What am I really deciding?12
- How am I showing up?Who gets the best of me, and who gets what is left?9
- What does money mean to me?What am I asking money to do, and what is enough?7
- Your principlesWhat do I steer by when it costs me something?6
- What am I responsible for?What am I actually responsible for, and what am I carrying that was never really mine?6
- What stage am I in?What does this part of my life require now?7
- What does not need fixing?What if this part of my life is already good?4
- Where does my attention actually go?What does the way I spend my attention say about the life I am living?4
- Who am I when nobody is watchingWhat remains when there is nobody to notice, approve or expect anything?4
- What has more control over me than I would likeWhat repeatedly changes what I do, whether I intended it or not?6
- What am I avoidingWhat have I known for months and not acted on?5
- Your confidence auditIs this competence, or is this fear?5
- What am I not allowing myself to wantWhose permission am I waiting for?5
- My digital selfWhat exists about me, and is it true?5
- The year, reviewedWhat actually happened, and what am I carrying forward?5
- What do I believeWhat do I hold true, and where did it come from?3
- Does my life match what I believeWhere is the distance between belief and conduct?4
- What is bigger than meWhat do I locate myself inside?3
- What am I doubtingWhat has changed in what I believe, and what follows?6
- Who benefits from my life besides meWhat is my contribution, honestly measured?5
- Is there something I need to apologise forWhat have I done that I have not repaired?3
- Something I am carryingWhat am I holding that I need help putting down?6
- What do I owe strangersWhat responsibility do I have beyond the people I know?7
- The conversation I keep not havingWhat do I need to say, and what am I afraid of?5
- BoundariesWhere am I saying yes and meaning no?3
- What kind of partner am IHow does the person closest to me experience me?5
- Is this relationship workingWhat is actually wrong, and is it mine to fix?5
- Who is actually in my lifeWho would notice if I disappeared for a week?3
- Am I lonelyAm I under-connected, or under-known?4
- Rebuilding a circleHow do adults make friends again?4
- Where do I belongWhich rooms am I genuinely part of?3
- What does my family need from meWhat do I reasonably owe, and what am I refusing?3
- Family patternsWhat am I repeating that I never chose?4
- The parent I intend to beWhat am I actually transmitting?4
- Caring for an ageing parentWhat is required, what is sustainable, and who else must help?6
- Roles are changingWhat happens when the child becomes the carer?6
- EstrangementDo I want contact, and on what terms?5
- Should I leaveIs the problem the job, the role, the people, or me?5
- CV stress testHow does a sceptical reader read this?7
- Is this just a job?Does this work need to mean more than it does?6
- What is this job actually costing meWhat am I paying in health, time and relationships?5
- What kind of work fits me nowHas the right work changed, even if the job has not?7
- Returning to workWhat do I bring back, and what has changed?8
- Made redundantWhat now, in the right order?11
- Am I a good managerWhat is it like to be managed by me?5
- Should I start somethingDo I want the business, or the escape?5
- Is this idea realDoes anybody actually want this?5
- Where does the value come fromWhich part of this model is doing the work?4
- Who do you need around youWho are the first ten people?4
- Does anybody else careIs this a mission, or a preference?5
- Under financial pressureWhat can I actually control this month?6
- Money and timeWhat am I trading, and at what rate?2
- Now that there is moneyWhat is it for, now that it is not for survival?2
- GenerosityWhere does my money go beyond me and mine?2
- Can my body sustain this lifeAm I building something my health can carry?5
- Energy, sleep and recoveryAre you recovering from the life you're living, or simply getting through it?4
- AgeingWhat is actually changing as you get older, and what are you simply assuming will?6
- What makes me feel aliveWhen do you feel completely in your life rather than merely moving through it?1
- RestWhat actually leaves you feeling restored?4
- What am I still curious aboutWhat still makes you want to know more?3
- What can I change and what must I carryWhich of this is mine to solve?5
- Failure, examinedWhat actually happened, and what did I contribute?3
- GriefWhat are you carrying, and what does it need?6
- What changes when time is finiteWhat matters enough not to postpone?1
- Starting againWhat survives from the old life, and what does not?1
- Leaving educationWhat happens when the structure you've known ends and nobody gives you the timetable for what comes next?3
- Building a life away from homeHow do you make somewhere new start feeling like your life rather than somewhere you're temporarily living?1
- Where should I liveWhat kind of place actually fits the life you want to live?1
- What replaces workWhen work stops organising the week, what takes its place?3
- The future I am preparing forWhat future are you quietly organising your life around?3
- What do I want to leave behindWhat do you want to leave behind, and how much of it can start now?2