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Family Routines and Rituals

Barbara Fiese

Fiese shows how much of family life is carried by small repeated practices rather than by decisions. Useful for seeing what you inherited without choosing.

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Family Therapy in Clinical Practice

Murray Bowen

Bowen's idea of differentiation, staying connected to your family without being governed by it, is the useful frame for most adult family questions.

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Genograms: Assessment and Intervention

Monica McGoldrick

The method for mapping a family across generations. It turns vague inherited feeling into something you can look at.

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Strengthening Family Resilience

Froma Walsh

Walsh looks at what families do well under pressure. A necessary counterweight when you are only cataloguing what went wrong.

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