TRY · 12 MIN
My Real Network
TAIU
Names, not a feeling.
Names the people who are actually in your life and when you last spoke.
Resources
Everything worth your time on the question: Who would notice if I disappeared for a week?
This page is for going further on your own. If you would rather work the question out with somebody asking, that is the conversation.
Who is actually in my life: talk it throughTRY · 12 MIN
TAIU
Names, not a feeling.
Names the people who are actually in your life and when you last spoke.
READ · BOOK
Robin Dunbar
Dunbar's layered circles explain why the number of people you can genuinely keep up with is small, and why guilt about the rest is misplaced.
READ · RESEARCH
Mark Granovetter
Granovetter's paper is the reason acquaintances matter more than they feel like they should. Useful when a life looks thin but is actually broad and shallow.
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