Resources
Everything worth your time on the question: What is required, what is sustainable, and who else must help?
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Carers UK
Most people caring for a parent are entitled to more support than they have claimed.
Practical guidance on carer's assessments, benefits, work and looking after your own health.
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Age UK
Useful when the practical questions are the ones actually keeping you awake.
Care, money, housing and health guidance for older people and their families.
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TAIU
Care that does not erase the person providing it.
Organises care so the person providing it remains visible in their own life.
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Atul Gawande
Gawande on what people actually want at the end of life, which is usually not what their families are organising for them. Difficult and clarifying.
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Karl Pillemer
Pillemer's research on family estrangement and repair, based on interviews with hundreds of families rather than on theory.
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Steven Zarit
The work behind the caregiver burden scale. It makes the load measurable, which matters when one person is quietly carrying most of it.
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