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Tool 65 · Develop yourself

What still makes you want to know more?

A guided 12 to 16 minutes conversation, here in TAIU. Curiosity doesn't need a business case.

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What are you interested in before you start asking whether it's useful?

The usefulness question tends to kill the interest that was worth having.

What you have read this month is better evidence than what you say interests you.

What you'll look at

  1. 01Recent attention
  2. 02The pull
  3. 03The older one
  4. 04The evidence

A note from Mark

Mark Eve, founder of TAIU

Curiosity has driven a lot of my life.

People. Businesses. Countries. Why something worked. Why something failed. How two things that appear unrelated might actually connect.

I've also learned that curiosity loses some of its value when you immediately demand an outcome from it.

You don't have to build a business from everything you're interested in.

Sometimes following the question is enough.

What you'll get

This will not sort you into a personality type.It will give you answers about your own life that you can test.

  1. 01

    What pulls you

  2. 02

    The part that does it

  3. 03

    How long

  4. 04

    What to protect

  5. +

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  • 01What keeps pulling your attention
  • 02What it is about it
  • 03How long it has been there
  • 04What you have actually done about it
  • 05The older curiosity
  • 06The rival reading
  • 07What deserves protecting
  • 08What remains unresolved
  • 09Where this goes next

What now?

  1. 01 · Save it

    What genuinely holds your attention.

  2. 02 · Test it

    Follow the question one step further this month without deciding what it is for.

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What I would do

  1. 01

    Look at behaviour rather than at stated interests.

  2. 02

    Find a second curiosity that has lasted years.

  3. 03

    Work out what the two have in common.

  4. 04

    Give it more room without asking it to justify itself.

  5. 05

    Leave it alone if it is already in good shape.

Test it

  1. 01

    What have you actually done because of it?

  2. 02

    Has it lasted, or is it new?

  3. 03

    Would you still be interested if nothing came of it?

The alternative

Repeated attention is not always curiosity. It can be novelty, which fades on its own. It can be work necessity dressed as interest. It can be status, or the influence of people around you, or avoidance of something else that needs attention. Test which one this is before giving it more room, because only one of them rewards the space.

Think about this

  • What you have read, watched or asked about lately without needing to.
  • The part of the subject that keeps pulling you back.
  • When the interest first appeared.
  • What you have actually done because of it.
  • Which older curiosity has lasted, and what the two share.

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READ · RESEARCH

The Psychology of Curiosity

George Loewenstein

Treats curiosity as a response to a gap between what somebody knows and what they want to know. It explains why interest can be intense and still not indicate a vocation.

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Further thinking

  • The Psychology of Curiosity

    George Loewenstein

  • Why We Do What We Do

    Edward L. Deci with Richard Flaste

  • Peak

    Anders Ericsson and Robert Pool

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Article

The Psychology of Curiosity

George Loewenstein

Treats curiosity as a response to a gap between what somebody knows and what they want to know. It explains why interest can be intense and still not indicate a vocation.

Book

Why We Do What We Do

Edward L. Deci with Richard Flaste

The readable account of self-determination theory, written by the man who spent forty years testing it. The finding that matters here is that rewards and approval reliably change why people do things, and that behaviour which survives without either is telling you something the rest is not. It gives you a usable test rather than a feeling.

Book

Peak

Anders Ericsson and Robert Pool

Ericsson spent his career studying how people become genuinely good at things, and the answer is boringly specific: structured practice at the edge of your current ability, with feedback. It belongs here as a corrective. Where an exercise finds that low confidence is an accurate reading of a real gap, this describes what closing the gap actually involves, and it is not a mindset.

Book

Flow

Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi

The original work behind absorbed attention: the conditions are a clear task, immediate feedback and difficulty roughly matched to skill. Useful here as a discriminator. Attention that absorbs you and attention that merely holds you feel similar in the moment and leave you in completely different states afterwards.