GUIDES
You have named it. Now spend some time on it.
Each Guide gives you a clear way to look at one subject in your own time. Choose where to begin. You do not need to work through everything.
Selected subject
Me
What am I actually good at?
Where the evidence actually is
Test what you think you are good at against things you have actually done.
Around twenty minutes
Start GuideWhat am I actually good at?
Where this strength belongs
Look at the situations where this strength is worth using, and the ones where it is not.
Around thirty minutes
Start GuideWhat am I actually good at?
Say it out loud
Work out how you would describe this to somebody else, if you ever wanted to.
Around twenty minutes
Start GuideAm I happy
What you are actually measuring
Work out what you are comparing your life against when you answer that question.
Around twenty minutes
Start GuideAm I happy
The parts that are working
Build an honest account of what is good, in enough detail to protect it.
Around thirty minutes
Start GuideAm I happy
What deserves your attention
Look at what is not working and decide whether to change it, protect it, accept it or give it more time.
Around twenty minutes
Start GuideDo I trust myself
What the record says
Look at the decisions you have actually made and how they turned out.
Around twenty minutes
Start GuideDo I trust myself
Where your judgement is sound
Separate what you can trust yourself with from what you cannot trust yourself with yet.
Around thirty minutes
Start GuideDo I trust myself
What would earn it
Work out what would build trust in the places it is thin, if that matters to you.
Around twenty minutes
Start GuideWhat does success mean to me?
What you count as evidence
Notice what you currently treat as proof that you are doing well.
Around twenty minutes
Start GuideWhat does success mean to me?
Your working definition
Write what success means to you, in language you would use out loud.
Around thirty minutes
Start GuideWhat does success mean to me?
Whether it still fits
Test that definition against the life you are living, then change it or keep it.
Around twenty minutes
Start Guide