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Change / Influence / Carry

Three columns for a situation that will not resolve neatly.

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01What I can change02What I can influence but not decide03What I have to carry04What carrying it well would look like

The third column is not defeat. It is accuracy.

This exercise belongs with the conversation on: Which of this is mine to solve?